Putting Out Fires

Hey,

Girls out there, if there’s one thing I’ve learned while living away from home for two years it’s that:

you will only ever have yourself in this life.

And that’s okay.

Of course you will love and you will learn from your mistakes. But at the end of the day all you ever truly have is yourself. Remember that. So you better make sure you are your best fucking friend. Take care of yourself. Love yourself. Put yourself first. When you’re half way across the world and all your days turn black, and you can only reach the ones who love you through a phone screen, you really learn how to rely on the person inside of you.

There’s too many girls out there putting these guys that treat them like absolute shit first. Go out and buy yourself, “Make Every Man Want You.” Don’t be put off by the title, (obviously not the authors best choice) but this book changed my life, legit. I will never, EVER, let a guy control my future or hold me back from my dreams, my goals, my biggest passions for this one life we all have.

I love Justin, he’s my best friend. He treats me with the love and respect a girl deserves. It took me a long time to learn that. To really understand what I deserve in a relationship and how to vocalize what I need. Maybe you’re not with the right partner, maybe you are alone and desperately searching for someone or something to fulfill you. Look inside yourself instead. You are enough. You are not a half looking for your other half to complete you. You are already whole. Justin is whole and I am whole. And we work together to bring out the best in each other.

Don’t sacrifice yourself for a guy. Scratch those two hours you spent taking a cute selfie and sending it to all your friends for their opinions cause he didn’t text you back and you want to show him how truly hot you are. Who gives a fuck. Clearly he is not the right person if you need to go to these lengths. Find a guy who already knows what a mega-babe you are and reminds you daily. Take those two hours to spend in a bubble bath with a glass of red, treating yourself like the Queen you are. Leave him guessing. There’s another guy right around the corner just waiting to treat you right once you start practicing the respect you deserve.

You don’t need anyone who doesn’t need you.

The universe will work with you once you start believing in yourself and all the good you have to offer to this world. Spend time doing what you love, focus on the things that make you feel the most alive. You can become your best self without a guy by your side. And once you start taking these steps, the law of attraction kicks in. You’ll become irresistible to this world. How powerful is a woman who knows her self-worth and is present in her life, making it as whole and beautiful as possible. She doesn’t need anyone holding her hand, she can put out fires by herself. And one day, the right guy will show up and accentuate her best traits. He’ll compliment her life instead of completing it. But in the meantime she’s doing just fine on her own.

You can do hard things baby girl. Believe in yourself. You don’t need anyone but you.

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